Thursday, June 25, 2009

Little Pink Houses For You and Me



When Chris and I got married, 15 years ago, we were young. Too young. And this is the type of house we lived in. Although I think the picture of this house is nicer, you get the idea. The one we rented was more run down, and PINK.

We've come a long way, baby.

Where an empty highchair sat in the kitchen in hopes that a baby would one day fill it. It took far too long, and was far too painful. But six years later that dream came true.

Where the rent house was pink, and the age was old, and the roaches hung out.

Where the marriage was hard, and the pain was great, and the joys were few.

Where a little blond-haired girl had to live two different lives between her Mom and Dad's house, and fought the battles, and felt the pain associated with that daily.

Where the black lab named Molly lived.

Where the decision to be a full-time mom was made.

Where the locks were changed.

Where the decor of choice was "country."

Where there was NO dishwasher.

Where I first learned about "the Internet."

Where I once owned a cat.

And where I learned to be a wife, and a mom, and what perseverance really means.


15 comments:

Life As I Know It said...

I love this.
I think that's why I get attached to houses...not because of the building it was but because of all that happened while living in it.

Manic Mommy said...

You've come a long way baby. I try to remember that the struggles of today become the 'remember when's of tomorrow.

I love that song.

Anonymous said...

It's funny. When you're young, you think that the stuff your parents have now, was always there. You never think about the journey and how they started out, until it's your turn! Thanks for sharing - I love it when I discover new things about my friends!

Hugs!
Megito

scarlett917 said...

Great post! Look at how far you've come!

Jenn @ Juggling Life said...

Beautiful.

Anonymous said...

I do know that wherever you were - it was HOME!!! That was the greatest thing -

Anonymous said...

Sounds like quite a journey, thank you for sharing. :)

Luv,

Amanda

Biddy said...

precious!!

will i be seeing you july 18th? i certainly hope so!

Biscuit said...

YOU had a cat??

Anonymous said...

I was thinking the same thing, Biscuit!

MG

marathon mom said...

my comment was above amanda's :)

apathy lounge said...

What a great timeline. Lovely. Painful. Truthful.

KT said...

So, not to change the subject, but if you enjoy a good book there is a great one called Little Pink House. I read your post and it made me think of the book of a true story about a woman's struggle to save her pink (really) house from being taken by eminent domain.

Cheri @ Blog This Mom! said...

Just checking in . . .

Im_the_Mom said...

Made me cry Denise. I remember that pink house. And the empty high chair. And now my little brown haired girl is living two different worlds between Mommy and Daddy. There are brighter days coming. A light on my path that grows brighter and brighter. You can attest to that.
Love you and miss you.